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Queer Reality TV Strategists Who Played the Long Game

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by Timothy Rawles  Mar 13

If you didn’t know it already the term “reality TV” is a misnomer---there is nothing real about it. Producers set up scenarios to induce conflict, story arcs are created and promises are broken. Take a look at the new Netflix documentary “Reality Check: Inside America’s Top Model” to see what I mean. However, reality TV remains one of the top-rated genres on small screens today, especially the competitive ones, and that could be because strategy can’t be scripted in an ever-changing social environment, strategy ebbs and flows with each situation.  Some are better at it than others. Gay or straight, truly effective people can manipulate people without them knowing it, allowing them to sometimes make it to the finish line undetected. After all, it’s just a game.  Below we take a look at some queer contestants who strategized their long game and, villainous or not, used their smarts as a weapon.

Todrick Hall – Celebrity Big Brother

Todrick Hall served up some delicious backstabbing on his season of “Big Brother.” He appeared to be nice to the house guest’s faces only to turn on them when they left the room, especially Shanna Moakler who he gunned for and eventually got evicted. Hall leaned into alliance-building and manipulation — and never pretended he wasn’t playing.



Parvati Shallow – Survivor

“Survivor” has been on the air for a long time and there are only a handful of players who have played iconic games. One of them is openly bisexual and fan favorite Parvati Shallow who is widely regarded as one of the greatest social strategists in the show’s history. The “Black Widow Brigade” was pure mastermind orchestration.



Monét X Change – RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars

Monét X Change played a strong social game on “Drag Race All Stars.” It was part “Survivor,” and part “Big Brother” where alliances were the key to staying in the game. Of course with her great costumes, killer lip-syncs and face beat for the Gods, she probably would have won without all the subterfuge.



Carson Kressley – Celebrity Big Brother

You might not be able to win a competition reality show by being nice, but Carson Kressley made it pretty far. Not for nothing his affable personality won over the other contestants and the viewers eventually winning him the title of “ America’s Favorite Houseguest.” Sometimes the nicest guy in the room sees the most.



Andy Herren – Big Brother 15

Andy Herren wasn’t exactly straightforward about his gameplay, and that’s understandable. But the level of sneakiness in his strategy was masterclass. Openly gay from the start, he positioned himself as everyone’s friend, floating between alliances while rarely becoming anyone’s target. His recon was bolstered by gathering information without being aggressive. He quietly steered votes and decisions behind the scenes. By the time the houseguests realized how well-connected he was, it was too late—his long-game strategy carried him all the way to the win.



Brice Izyah – Survivor Cagayan

Brice Izyah got away with a lot in his short time on “Survivor: Cagayan.” He’s a strategic thinker and socially savvy player. Openly gay, Brice understood early that relationships are the real currency of these games. It also helped that he’s a fan of these shows and used that to his advantage. His ability to read alliances, build trust, and position himself within social networks showed the instincts of a fandom strategist.



Frankie Grande – Big Brother

Nothing like a flamboyant distraction to throw everyone off your trail. It seemed like that’s what Frankie Grande did on his season of “Big Brother.” His over-the-top persona masked a calculated social play. He didn’t even have to use his sister’s name to manipulate the houseguests. Camp doesn’t mean clueless.


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The New Guard of Queer Country Music

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by Timothy Rawles  Mar 11

Much like sports used to be, country music was also a homophobic workspace. No matter how talented you were, or determined, if you were gay, it was best to stay in the closet or just kiss your Grand Ole Opry dreams goodbye.  Today it’s a different story and while the country music scene is still a conservative one, queer folks now have zero interest in hiding who they are, and to them, storytelling is still a musical art no matter what lane you choose.  Some of these trailblazers are listed below. All of them talented and worth a listen on your music app. Turn up the volume, let your hair down and your Pride flow! 

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