Rosalía States Preferred Quality in Men Is 'That He's Gay' During Spotify Interview
NEW YORK, NEW YORK - MAY 05: Rosalía attends the 2025 Met Gala Celebrating "Superfine: Tailoring Black Style" at Metropolitan Museum of Art on May 05, 2025 in New York City. Photo Credit: (Photo by Dia Dipasupil/Getty Images)
Spanish pop star Rosalía disclosed during a Spotify interview that the quality she values most in a man is "that he's gay." The comment came in a filmed conversation with Argentine author Mariana Enríquez, conducted last year in Buenos Aires as part of Spotify's new A/Presenta initiative for Latin America, which highlights artists' creative processes.
Rosalía then expanded on her perspective, noting the rigidity of framing attraction by gender. "It is kind of funny that they separate the two because the first thing to mind is what is the quality that stands out the most or catches your attention, of any person," she said. When Enríquez was asked about qualities in women, she cited "sense of humour."
The interview clip has circulated widely online since its release around March 3, 2026, generating reactions that interpret Rosalía's remark as praising the emotional qualities often associated with gay men, such as loyalty, humor, and lack of romantic competition. Social media users commented: "Is gay the new standard for men?" and "That’s another word for ‘loyalty.’" Others noted, "every straight man just learned he's been outperformed by someone who isn't even competing."
This exchange aligns with Rosalía's past relationships and public statements on sexuality. In 2019, she dated transgender actor Hunter Schafer, known for her role in the HBO series Euphoria. Schafer later described their connection in a 2024 GQ interview as a "beautiful friendship" that remains like family. In a 2025 Elle Magazine interview, Rosalía expressed reluctance to label her sexuality, stating, "I think of freedom. That’s what guides me."
Rosalía's comments have resonated within LGBTQ+ communities, prompting discourse on the "gay best friend" dynamic—close platonic bonds between gay men and women valued for emotional support and authenticity. Instinct Magazine highlighted how such friendships provide "less posturing, less ego, more emotional fluency," framing gay men as a "gold standard" for companionship in some cultural narratives. The outlet posed questions to gay men about whether they embrace or feel fatigued by this role, reflecting broader conversations on emotional labor in cross-orientation friendships.
Rosalía, a Grammy-winning artist known for collaborations with Billie Eilish and Bad Bunny, continues to defy norms in her career. She recently joined the cast of Euphoria's third season alongside Schafer, with new additions including Sharon Stone and Natasha Lyonne. The season is set to premiere on April 12, 2026, on HBO and HBO Max in the US, and April 13 on Sky and NOWTV in the UK.
The Spotify A/Presenta series aims to foster intimate discussions on artistry, and this installment underscores Rosalía's candid approach to personal topics. Her remarks, delivered playfully, highlight ongoing cultural shifts toward fluid understandings of attraction and platonic ideals, particularly affirming gay men's roles in diverse social circles. While some view the statement as a compliment to gay men’s interpersonal strengths, others caution against generalizations, emphasizing that individuals vary regardless of orientation.
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