Hayden Panettiere Publicly Comes Out as Bisexual, Opens Up About Dating Women and Life in the Spotlight
NEW YORK, NEW YORK - MARCH 06: Hayden Panettiere attends the world premiere of Paramount's "Scream VI" at AMC Lincoln Square Theater on March 06, 2023 in New York City. Photo Credit: Dimitrios Kambouris
Hayden Panettiere has publicly identified as bisexual for the first time, telling Us Weekly that she now feels “comfortable to confidently say that, yes, I am bisexual.” The 36‑year‑old actor, known for roles in “Heroes” and “Nashville,” explained that sharing her story in her forthcoming memoir helped her decide to speak publicly about her sexuality ahead of the book’s release.
Speaking about dating women
Panettiere also confirmed that she has dated women and that her attraction to women began when she was very young. She recalled that she was “much more into women” than men while growing up, noting that her experiences with women have been a meaningful part of her life even if she did not discuss them publicly until now.
Despite having relationships with women, Panettiere said that the constant presence of paparazzi and lack of privacy around her personal life made dating women feel “scary.” She explained that cameras and public scrutiny often followed her, which discouraged her from fully committing emotionally to women because she did not want a same‑gender relationship to become something she would feel forced to hide.
In the interview, Panettiere reflected that she “didn’t really have the courage to throw fully, emotionally into it,” referring to relationships with women, because she had not yet shared that aspect of herself widely and feared falling in love in a situation where she still felt she had to conceal part of her identity. She emphasized that her reluctance was rooted in a lack of confidence and a longstanding fear of living openly, rather than any lack of attraction or interest in women.
The role of fame and early pressure
Panettiere connected her decision to wait to come out publicly to the pressures she experienced as a child and young adult actor. She said that when she was younger, she felt “forced to be perfect at all times” and was not encouraged simply to be herself, conditions that made it difficult for her to speak openly about her sexuality.
The actor described years of living under intense public scrutiny, with paparazzi regularly waiting outside and following her, as a central reason why exploring relationships with women felt especially fraught. She noted that this environment left her with very little privacy and led her to feel that sharing her bisexual identity publicly was “never the right time” until now.
Panettiere added that she has “known for a long time” about her bisexuality but did not feel ready to say so publicly until the process of writing about her life prompted deeper reflection. She framed her recent statement as part of a broader effort to live more honestly and to align what she shares with audiences with the experiences she has had privately.
Memoir, recovery, and personal history
Panettiere’s announcement comes as she promotes “This Is Me: A Reckoning,” a memoir set for release in mid‑May that explores her personal history, including her sexuality, experiences in Hollywood, mental health challenges, and recovery. In the book, she reportedly details difficult periods of her life and describes how coming to terms with her identity, including her attraction to women, fits into a larger process of reckoning with past trauma and expectations.
The actor’s personal life has frequently been covered by entertainment media, including her past engagement to former heavyweight boxing champion Wladimir Klitschko and the birth of their daughter Kaya, who is now 11. She was previously engaged to Klitschko between 2013 and 2018 and shares co‑parenting responsibilities with him for their daughter.
Panettiere’s last widely reported romantic relationship was with Brian Hickerson, with whom she was linked between 2018 and 2020.
Coverage of that relationship intersected with public conversations about domestic violence and personal safety, topics that have also formed part of broader reporting on Panettiere’s life in recent years.
Her memoir is expected to discuss not only her romantic relationships but also her experiences with addiction, postpartum depression, and recovery, though detailed contents of those chapters had not been fully published at the time of her bisexuality announcement. Previews suggest that the book portrays her decision to live more openly, including about being bisexual, as intertwined with efforts to rebuild her life and sense of self after those challenges.
Bisexual visibility and Hollywood context
Panettiere’s public announcement adds her voice to a growing number of entertainment figures who have come out as bisexual or otherwise queer in recent years, contributing to increased visibility for bisexual people in mainstream media. Her decision to speak openly in connection with a memoir underscores how personal storytelling remains a significant tool for LGBTQ+ people in public life to reclaim narratives that have often been shaped by tabloids and speculation.
In her comments, Panettiere framed bisexuality as one aspect of a complex identity shaped by early fame, strict expectations, and later efforts to heal and grow. She also emphasized that choosing to share this part of herself publicly is something she is doing on her own timeline, now that she feels ready to live more in alignment with how she has long understood her sexuality.
Observers note that such disclosures from high‑profile figures can help normalize bisexual identities and affirm the experiences of bisexual people whose attraction spans more than one gender, especially when those stories address both the challenges and affirming aspects of coming out. Panettiere’s comments about fear, privacy, and courage highlight how structural factors like media scrutiny can shape when and how LGBTQ+ people in the public eye feel safe to disclose their identities.
For Panettiere, the coming weeks are likely to bring further discussion of her story as “This Is Me: A Reckoning” reaches readers and introduces additional details about her journey. Her recent comments mark a clear public statement that being bisexual is a central and enduring part of that journey, one that she is now choosing to affirm in her own words.
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