Olivia Rodrigo Says She Was ‘Out of My Element’ Raving with Charli XCX, Calls Pop Star an ‘Ultimate Party Girl’
LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - FEBRUARY 02: Olivia Rodrigo attends the 67th GRAMMY Awards on February 02, 2025 in Los Angeles, California. Photo Credit: Frazer Harrison
Olivia Rodrigo has recalled feeling “a little out of my element” after attending a rave with Charli xcx, describing the British singer as the “ultimate party girl” and praising her warmth and supportiveness in the pop world. The 23‑year‑old American artist shared the story during a BBC Radio 1 Live Lounge appearance, where she was asked which “pop girlies” she feels most supported by within the music industry.
Live Lounge anecdote and the ‘ultimate party girl’
In the Live Lounge interview, Rodrigo singled out Charli xcx as a particularly supportive figure, calling her “wonderful and lovely” and emphasising that the older artist “couldn’t be more supportive.” Rodrigo added that Charli, whose real name is Charlotte Emma Aitchison, is “such a girl’s girl,” using a phrase that has become shorthand among many young fans for women who uplift other women in their communities.
Rodrigo then recounted their recent night out together, telling the BBC she had gone to what she described as a rave with Charli. “I actually went to a rave with her. I don’t even know if it’s a rave,” Rodrigo said, before clarifying: “I’m not like a party girl, she’s the ultimate party girl, obviously.”
The singer acknowledged that the experience pushed her outside her comfort zone, explaining, “I was a little out of my element, but I had the best time, and she was very lovely.” While Rodrigo did not go into extensive detail about the venue during the radio segment, the brief story highlighted the contrasting public personas of the two stars: Rodrigo’s more introspective, self‑described non‑“party girl” identity next to Charli’s entrenched reputation as a boundary‑pushing nightlife figure.
Where the night took place
Subsequent online coverage connected Rodrigo’s “rave” reference to an appearance the previous week at Lost, a secretive nightclub in London’s Covent Garden housed inside a disused former Odeon cinema. The Tab reported that Rodrigo and Charli were seen at Lost’s closing party, which came only eight months after the club first opened, and described how the venue had hosted performances by acts including Skepta.
A Dazed reporter at the same night described The Dare performing an “electric mix of EDM and garage” as Charli xcx and her husband, drummer and producer George Daniel, moved through the crowd, with Rodrigo following behind them. The report noted that an unusually long bar queue formed when Charli tried to order a drink, and recounted how she later passed by carrying “a water jug full of champagne” amid the phone‑free crowd.
While The Tab characterised the event as a club night rather than a traditional warehouse rave, the outlet suggested Rodrigo may have been referring to that same Lost appearance when she used the word “rave” in the Live Lounge. The description of the setting and crowd underscored the contrast between the more underground club environment and Rodrigo’s usual public image as a festival headliner and arena artist.
Supportive ‘pop girlies’ and community
In the Radio 1 session, Rodrigo’s comments about Charli came in response to a question about which women in pop music she feels championed by, a topic that has resonated with many younger fans who follow conversations around solidarity among women and queer‑inclusive communities in the industry. Rodrigo highlighted that the artists she chooses to surround herself with, both in public and on tour, are musicians who genuinely inspire her and encourage her to improve her craft.
She pointed to English bands Wolf Alice and The Last Dinner Party as examples, saying she personally selected them as support acts for her tour because she thinks “they’re amazing” and considers them friends. Rodrigo added that surrounding herself with musicians she admires helps her stay creatively motivated, describing how these artists “totally inspire me and push me to want to be better.”
The Live Lounge discussion also touched on Rodrigo’s affection for London, where Lost was located, as she praised the city’s “amazing pub culture” and mentioned enjoying local parks and even “swimming in ponds.” Those comments aligned with her broader image as an artist who balances high‑profile appearances with a grounded, everyday appreciation of local culture in the cities she visits.
Music, covers, and an upcoming album
During the same BBC Radio 1 Live Lounge session, Rodrigo performed a cover of “When A Good Man Cries” by Irish singer‑songwriter CMAT . She described putting the cover together with her father as “so much fun” and praised the track as “epic,” calling its sound “twangy and country” and commending its “super, super awesome and unique” lyrics.
After the performance, CMAT reacted by posting a video on Instagram in which she joked that Rodrigo “sang it better than me so now I’m toast,” and invited the American star for drinks, saying they should go for some “pints.” The interaction highlighted a growing network of mutual support among younger pop and indie artists, many of whom share overlapping fan communities that include LGBTQ+ listeners and other audiences who often find resonance in emotionally direct songwriting.
Rodrigo is currently promoting her third studio album, titled *You Seem Pretty Sad For A Girl So In Love*, which is scheduled for release on 12 June 2026. In her Live Lounge remarks, she said she feels “really lucky that I get to do what I do” and admitted she “couldn’t comprehend” how many people want to attend her shows, underscoring the scale of anticipation around the new project.
Reflecting on her creative process, Rodrigo said she loves writing songs and that making music helps her feel less alone, adding that the possibility of helping someone she has never met feel similarly understood is “a really beautiful feeling.” She described that emotional connection as central to why “music’s so magical,” echoing themes of vulnerability and solidarity that have featured prominently throughout her work and public statements.
Rodrigo’s first album *Sour*, released in 2021, topped the UK charts and earned her Grammy Awards in 2022 for best pop vocal album and best new artist, cementing her status as a major voice in contemporary pop. Her second studio album *Guts* followed in 2023, and her forthcoming third record arrives nearly a year after she headlined Glastonbury Festival, marking a rapid rise that has seen her move from breakthrough single to global festival mainstays in just a few years.
Charli xcx, nightlife, and evolving images
Charli xcx, who is 33, has long been associated with a club‑centric, nightlife‑infused aesthetic, and has spoken in other interviews about audiences perceiving her as a “girl who parties and does drugs and is a little bit bitchy,” even as she emphasises that her public persona is only one part of her life. In a feature reflecting on her “brat” era, she said she finds it fascinating to see how people “ingest your personality and spit it back out,” and noted that she does not feel she alone can decide when that particular phase of her career is “over,” suggesting that audiences and culture at large play a role.
Those comments, made in 2025, provide context for Rodrigo’s light‑hearted framing of Charli as the “ultimate party girl” during the 2026 Live Lounge segment. For many listeners, Rodrigo’s anecdote about the rave functions less as a story of wild excess and more as a moment of contrast between two artists who navigate overlapping spaces while maintaining distinct identities and boundaries.
Within pop culture conversations that often include LGBTQ+ fans and creatives, both performers are recognised for cultivating inclusive spaces: Rodrigo through candid, emotionally open songwriting that resonates across identities, and Charli through long‑standing ties to hyperpop, club culture, and a fanbase that includes many queer and trans listeners. Rodrigo’s story about feeling “out of my element” while still having “the best time” with Charli underlines how different artistic personas can coexist within the same nightlife and community spaces in ways that many fans, including LGBTQ+ audiences, experience in their own lives.
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